Wednesday, June 10, 2015

The Least of These . . .


‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’  Matthew 25:40

I've tried to write a blog post about my passion for providing a comparable education for students who don't necessary start out with the same chances as their more affluent counterparts--and I'm always brought back to this scripture.  Anyone who knows me will attest to the fact that I am "all in" when it comes to fighting to the end for the underdog.  

This post became easier for me to write as I witnessed how taking care of "the least of these" affected my daughter (Chandler) in a very personal way.  You see, she just returned from being a "missionary" at Camp Barnabas (a camp for people with special needs).  She was there for Adult Camper Week and was partnered with a woman who was 50, but due to her mental retardation had a mental age of 3 or 4.  Chandler was responsible for her camper 24-7.  That's a lot of responsibility for a senior-in-high-school-to-be 17 year-old.

To be honest, I really didn't know how her week would go.  Both of our children have never really "wanted" for anything.  My husband and I are both educators, so we aren't flying to Bali on the weekends, but all-in-all, our kids have never seen us struggle.  They have watched us work hard, but we have never struggled.  We have tried to share the lessons we have learned working in public education, but let's be real--how much do we really listen when our parents are "teaching" us . . . I imagine most of our stories have ended up as white noise for our children.

Fast-forward to this past Friday, when we picked Chandler up from Camp Barnabas.  She has talked about it non-stop.  What has stuck with me as her mother is her remark that "It was really hard work, but I knew that this was the only week the campers had all year in which they were the center of attention.  The pure joy and love they expressed was immeasurable.  I did not want to let them down."

Each day in our schools, we have students who count on us, just like Chandler's camper counted on her.  Our students may not be as transparent in their joy and love as the campers at Camp Barnabas, but they need us to be our best for them all the same.

As educators, we all have the opportunity to advocate for those who have no one else to advocate for them.  How do we provide opportunities for them?  What experiences are they missing out on that we take for granted?  Are attendance areas in your school district divided by "good neighborhoods" and "bad neighborhoods"?  Does that set-up serve your community in a positive way, or divide it into the haves and have-nots?  If so, how do we fix it, or should we?

How do you answer these questions--personally and professionally?  I challenge all who read this (probably three people including my mother!) to reflect on how you walk through this life.  The "least of these" need you--I hope you are willing to step up and be there for them because when you do, it makes us all better in the long run--just ask Chandler Grega!






Wednesday, April 1, 2015

From Jimmy Casas to Water Wings

Blogging has never been my "thing".  Typing my thoughts and sending them out into the Great Beyond has never really appealed to me.  It's not that I don't have anything to say--those that know me well know that I am always "at the ready" to give my opinion or make a smart-aleck quip.  Here's the deal . . . . if you're not careful, blogging can make you look like you are a professional self-promoter, or on the other end of the spectrum, it can quite honestly make you look pretty stupid.  Let's be honest, everybody has read a blog that has a lot to do about nothing--who wants to be "that guy" or "that girl"?

So, what changed my mind?  What pushed me over the edge and made me take the plunge?  Jimmy Casas.  Yes, the @casas_jimmy who is a HS principal in Iowa, motivational speaker and #IAedchat Co-Founder Jimmy Casas.  You see, I heard him present at the Missouri Association of Secondary School Principal's meeting this spring.  He challenged everyone in the packed room to blog and share what they know, great things that they are doing, etc.  I know what you're thinking--you've heard that spiel before, it's not new to Jimmy--believe me, I'm right there with you!  However, Jimmy gave me permission to struggle with it (blogging), to hate it from time-to time, and to take as long as necessary to get an entry written (he said it takes him weeks sometimes).

With these things in mind, I am making a commitment to post to this blog once a month.  I'm a middle school principal leading the turn-around of a fantastic school.  We've been at it for a while and the ship has definitely begun to steer in the right direction!  Surely I will have something to contribute.  So far, I'm on a mad-wicked streak of one-month-in-a-row!  Even better, I just heard Jimmy speak Monday--so either he's really good, or I am! :)  How hard is it to write a blog about blogging though?  On the Grega scale of SP (self-promotion) to PS (pretty stupid), this one might be tipping the scale towards PS, but hey--it's my first one!  Nowhere to go but up!

Thanks again to Jimmy Casas to pushing me over the edge!  I still need a life jacket.  Perhaps in a couple of months I will graduate to Water Wings!

Get started yourself.  There really isn't an excuse not to join in and blog, otherwise I would have thought of it!  If you actually took the time to read this, you know you can do better--so BRING IT and be sure to tag me when you tweet about your new blog @debbie_grega